Rs19 - week3

 
 

ICE BREAKER

Have each person take a notecard and write out one thing way you can become better at communication.

SCRIPTURE

Amos 3:3 NLT

Can two people walk together without agreeing on the direction?

FOR GUYS ONLY

Q1 - How can you find your security and identity in Christ?

Q2 - How can you protect yourself from lusting after girls? Are there things you look at too long?

“Guys need to know that they have the power to shape, for good or for bad, how girls see themselves.”

Q3 - How often do you think about the fact that your actions affect girls? Whether it be a flirty text, a casual (or not so casual) side hug, or your words, do you think about the affect they will have?

Q4 - Do you think you can evaluate how your actions may lead a girl on before doing it in the future?

“Men are meant to be leaders, but that doesn’t mean we can do whatever we want. But it means that we have a great responsibility to do it God’s way. It means we are going to give an account to God for how we manage the life that he gave us and the lives that we come into contact with.”

Luke 12:48 NLT
The man who receives much will have to give much. If much is given to a man to take care of, men will expect to get more from him.

Q5 - How does that make you feel knowing people want to depend on you for direction, and knowing girls expect you to lead?

“The number one thing that is important to a girl is how that guy makes her feel. If that guy makes her feel beautiful and feel like she is special and that she’s funny, it doesn’t matter if he has big muscles or the biggest muscles or not. A girl just wants a guy who really treats her right.”

Q6 - How do you think your attitude towards girls makes them feel? Are yo being responsible with your words and actions?

“Dating protects your marriage in the future”

Q7 - Are you ready to make decisions in your current, or next relationship, that will protect your marriage? What might this look like?

FOR GIRLS ONLY

Q1 - Did you know that some guys feel insecure and struggle with feeling insufficient?

“Women need to know how physically stimulated men are.”

Q2 - How often do you think about the fact that guys are stimulated by physical appearance before you pick out what you are going to wear everyday?

Q3 - What is your motivation when choosing what you wear in the morning?

Q4 - How can you double check your outfit to make sure it is modest each day?

Q5 - How can you find your confidence in Jesus instead of a guy’s opinion?

“Dating protects your marriage in the future”

Q7 - Are you ready to make decisions in your current, or next relationship, that will protect your marriage? What might this look like?

Q8 - Do you think it is appropriate to talk about how badly you want a boyfriend on social media? What are your motives behind posting these? What do you think a guy thinks when he sees those types of posts?

PRAYER

Lord, We thank you that girls and guys have been created different and are able to compliment one another in relationships. We ask that we would learn to find our confidence in you. Guide us into right relationships and help us to always put you in the middle of every relationship. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

CHALLENGE

Encourage each person to bring a friend to Relationship Foundations class this Monday night at 7pm!